You have to learn to say no to negativity, you have to learn to say no to stupid people and you have to learn to say no to the actions that can destroy your future because smoking just for holding a friendship is stupidity. You should always limit your time with people that drain your energy, start to recognize people that lift you up in life. Spend time with people who add values to your life, they are your true buddies because common sense is to understand that elders will not always be right in helping you make the right decisions.
You will laugh listening to this “negative people are committed”, they will always find reasons to demotivate you, and also, they will come with examples just to make sure you don’t take the right path. When in a problem, see yourself in a wise man’s shoes and try to see the problem with a solution-focused mindset. Practice will help you achieve greatness, overthinking of issues will drain all your energy.
Moving on will take you to a better place, at least give yourself a chance to prove your worth. If you don’t believe in yourself, “why will other people believe in your efforts?”
Don’t chase people, be yourself because the one who genuinely cares for you will stay no matter how you react. Work hard because the one who belongs in your life will stay in any situation. People in your life should reduce your tensions, should help you overcome issues however these days we are finding it opposite in everyone’s life.
Believe it or not, your chance to unleash your best is when you are surrounded by positive people because your mindset is really important in your decisions. Surround yourself with people who let you love yourself, who make you feel good about yourself, and who see good in this world.
Say it to yourself “I refuse to entertain negativity; life is too big and time is too short to get caught up in drama”
